Twelve Step Recovery for Self-Serving Leaders
(Adapted from Ken Blanchard and Phil Hodges’ Lead Like Jesus: Lessons for Everyone from the Greatest Leadership Role Model of All Time, pp. 74-75)
Step One
One more than one occasion I have allowed my self-serving needs to negatively impact my role as a leader and that my leadership has not been the servant leadership that Jesus modeled.
Step Two
I’ve come to believe that God can transform my leadership motives, thoughts, and actions into the servant leadership that Jesus modeled.
Step Three
I’ve made a decision to turn my leadership efforts over to God and to become a disciple of Jesus and the servant leadership He modeled.
Step Four
I’ve made a searching and fearless inventory of my own leadership motives, thoughts, and behaviors that are inconsistent with servant leadership.
Step Five
I’ve admitted to God and at least one other person the exact nature of my leadership gaps – when I behave in ways that do not make Jesus proud.
Step Six
I am entirely ready to have God remove all character defects that have created gaps in my leadership.
Step Seven
I humbly ask God to remove my shortcomings and to strengthen me against the temptations of recognition, power, greed, and fear.
Step Eight
I’ve made a list of those people whom I may have harmed by my self-serving leadership and am willing to make amends to them all.
Step Nine
I’ve made direct amends to such people whenever possible unless doing so would injure them or others.
Step Ten
I continue to take person inventory regarding my leadership role, and when I am wrong, I promptly and specifically admit it.
Step Eleven
By engaging in the disciplines of solitude, prayer, study of Scripture, and belief in God’s unconditional love for me, I seek to align my servant leadership effort with what Jesus modeled and to constantly seek ways to be a servant first and a leader second with the people I encounter in my leadership responsibilities.
Step Twelve
Having had a “heart attack” regarding the principles of servant leadership, I have tried to carry this message to other leaders and practice them in all my affairs.
Lead Like Jesus: Lessons for Everyone from the Greatest Leadership Role Model of All Time is a textbook for the Rockbridge Seminary course “Lead Like Jesus” (a fully online seminary course).
This course is an elective for the Master of Divinity (MDiv) and Master of Ministry Leadership (MML) programs.
2012 Course Schedule for the course “Lead Like Jesus“
- 2012 Term 2 (Feb 28-Apr 23) – MDiv and MML



